What's Your (Modern) Love Language?
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Explore what love means to you and what you need most to feel it deeply.
You Deserve Love on Your Terms
7 multi-lesson modules · Guided videos · Fillable worksheets
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MAKE ROOM FOR YOUR EXPERIENCE
You care deeply.
But what helps you feel loved?
Sometimes the usual advice leaves something out. Your closest connections may not look like the relationships you were taught to expect. And knowing you care isn’t always the same as knowing how to express it.
This course gives you language, questions, and space to explore what love means to you.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
Your relationships don’t need to fit someone else’s script.
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You can begin on your own, with the questions you already have.
You want to put your feelings and needs into words.
Romance-focused advice doesn’t reflect all your important connections.
You’re curious about which lessons about love still fit.
You want to understand what matters to you, including in your relationship with yourself.
WHAT YOU’LL EXPLORE
Understand your experience and find the words for it.
YOUR STORY
What you learned about love
Identify your love “teachers” and reflect on which lessons still serve you.
YOUR CONNECTIONS
Attraction, values & identity
Explore different forms of attraction and notice how your core values show up in your relationships.
YOUR MODERN LOVE LANGUAGES
18 ways to explore love
Take a closer look at the 18 Modern Love Languages and what they mean to you.
Love on Your Terms: Explore the 18 Modern Love Languages and What Love Means to You
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Welcome & Groundwork: Before We Begin
5 lessons- Welcome and Groundwork
- Let's Get Grounded
- Defining Our Terms
- A Note Before You Begin
- Conclusion
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Your First Reflection
3 lessons- Welcome to Module 1
- Meet the 18 Languages
- Your YES / NO / MAYBE Snapshot
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What You Were Taught About Love
4 lessons- Welcome to Module 2
- Our Love “Teachers”
- Which Lessons Still Serve You?
- Module 2 Conclusion
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How You Relate
5 lessons- Welcome
- What Is a Relationship, Really?
- Let's Talk Attraction
- Fluidity and What Feels Familiar
- Module 3 Conclusion
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Your Core Values
6 lessons- Welcome
- What’s a Core Value?
- Name Your Core Values
- Your Current Relationships, Mapped
- Your Relationship With Yourself
- Conclusion
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The 18 Languages for Modern Love, in Depth
10 lessons- Welcome
- Two Directions: Languages for Yourself, Languages With Others
- Accountability, Active Listening, and Acts of Empathy
- Affirming Communication, Bestowing, and Emotional Labor
- Engaged Experiences, Intentional Time, and Personal Growth
- Platonic Touch, Problem-Solving, and Providing
- Shared Beliefs, Solidarity, and Teamwork
- Thoughtful Service, Undivided Attention, and Upskilling
- Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation
- Conclusion
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Giving vs. Receiving
4 lessons- How You Express Love
- How You Feel Loved, and What Doesn’t Feel Loving
- How Your 18 Love Languages Show Up
- Check In
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Your Roadmap and What Comes Next
3 lessons- Final Reflection: Then and Now
- Your Personalized Roadmap
- Where to Go From Here
REFLECTION YOU CAN USE
Bring the lessons
into your own life.
Watch a lesson, pause, and make space for your own answers. Fillable worksheets help you name your values, map your relationships, and explore your identity.
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Seven self-paced modules
Video lessons you can work through on your schedule
Downloadable, fillable reflection worksheets
MEET YOUR INSTRUCTOR
Anne Hodder-Shipp
Anne is a certified sex and relationships educator and the author of Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love.
Their work makes room for different identities, experiences, and relationships, including the connections that don’t fit familiar expectations of love.
A few things you may be wondering
Do I need a partner to take this course?
Is the course live or self-paced?
Are worksheets included?
Do I need to know my modern love languages first?