FINALLY!
A modern alternative to that popular "love language" idea.
Unlike that outdated evangelical book, Speaking from the Heart shows us that love happens in ALL relationships — not just romantic ones.
And there's way more than five ways to feel it.
The book and matching workbook offer 18 ways that people can express and receive love. They're called The 18 Modern Love Languages, and they have helped thousands of people transform their relationship to love.
The 18 Modern Love Languages include:
+ 14 more!
THE BOOK
A much-needed expansion of the "love language" concept that centers platonic love, dismantles heteronormativity, and challenges traditional ideas about relationships.
Friendly to everyone, but especially LGBTQIA+, ace and aro, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, and non-traditional readers.
Available as an ebook or in paperback (black-and-gray or full color)!
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THE WORKBOOK
An accessible, self-paced guide filled with more than 50 original exercises to help you dive deeper into your relationship to platonic love.
This workbook helps you cut through the biases, negative self-talk, and make-up rules that are (probably) getting in your way.
Available as a fillable PDF or in paperback (black-and-gray or full color)!
CHECK OUT THE WORKBOOKTHE COURSE
Explore what love means to you, on your terms and at your pace. This self-paced course gives you space to learn about what you need to feel more love in your life, while also helping you to name and let go of any old narratives that might not serve you anymore.
7 modules with captioned videos, fillable worksheets, and guided exercises from the creator of The 18 Modern Love Languages.
COMING SOON!
It helps that the creator is queer and qualified.
Understanding how we do (and don't) experience love can be key for having healthy relationships.
The 18 Modern Love Languages give you a new way to think about love — and all the unique ways you feel it.
Have questions? My frequently asked questions (FAQs) page might answer them!
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“Speaking from The Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love is a brilliant foundational guide for people of all ages and identities who are ready to level up their relationship skills.
Cyndi Darnell, MSW, M.HSc - Sex and Relationship Therapist
“This book is a fantastically accessible read. It will act as a comprehensive guide for someone understanding love languages for the very first time, but will also be a welcome and necessary refresher for those who felt that [The 5 Love Languages®] didn't fully encompass their experiences.
Andrew Gurza - Disability Awareness Consultant and Host of "Disability After Dark" Podcast
Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love is so emblematic of Anne’s approach to teaching about sexuality and relationships. Above all else, this book is inclusive of all expressions of love and relationship styles, which is such an important reimagining of the love language idea.
Sarah Tomchesson, CSE - Pleasure Educator
More from Anne and The 18 Modern Love Languages:
LIVE WORKSHOP
THE PROFESSIONAL INTENSIVE
If you are a therapist, coach, or helping professional who uses the love language concept in your work, this one is for you!
This live interactive workshop takes a transformative deep dive into The 18 Modern Love Languages and how to use them with clients and students.
SIGN UPFREE QUIZ
WHAT'S YOUR MODERN LOVE LANGUAGE?
Take a quiz to see what love feels like to you and which Modern Love Languages you resonate with the most!
Use this as a starting point or sneak peek, not a "diagnosis" or personality test. It's meant to be fun!
TAKE THE QUIZPRIVATE COACHING
UNLEARN UNHELPFUL RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS
Relationships aren't intuitive and they don't come with easy instruction manuals.
Anne's coaching style prioritizes authenticity and emotional awareness over “the rules” so you can build and maintain relationships on YOUR terms.
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